http://www.thecftplace.co.nz/blog/ The latest Blog feeds from www.thecftplace.co.nz en-us Tue, 16 Jun 2026 22:29:35 +1200 Rocketspark http://www.thecftplace.co.nz/blog/post/166327/change-stability-and-the-rubiks-cube-of-relationship-patterns/ I’ve always found I understand things more deeply through metaphor and example, and this way of thinking naturally shapes how I work as a therapist. Metaphors help me make sense of complexity without reducing it too quickly. They create a way of seeing experience that is shared, visual, and often easier to reflect on than explanation alone. They can also help people take a step back from something they feel caught up in, and look at it from a less personal and less blaming position.  This... Sun, 14 Jun 2026 10:22:32 +1200 http://www.thecftplace.co.nz/blog/#post166327